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Loving Neighbors in the Strangest Places

“Loving Neighbors in the Strangest Places”

Luke 19:1-10 (19:5) – July 13, 2025

I have rubbed elbows with all kinds of people! I grew up in Chicago in a half-and-half, working-class and middle-class neighborhood. I lived in (and worshiped in) two racially mixed areas of Chicago for some years. I’ve had a number of jobs before I went to seminary at 40 years old, in diverse industries, including the ramp, a huge warehouse, and an order fulfillment center. So, when I hear the Rabbi Jesus getting some guff from the crowd for hanging out with the riff-raff and “sinners,” that surely gets my attention!   

I think today’s Scripture reading is particularly fascinating since it shows someone who was definitely not well liked in his neighborhood. In fact, no one wanted to call him “friend” or neighbor. Zaccheus was a chief tax-collector for the Roman occupation. Yes, he was Jewish, and yes, he was working for the hated occupying foreign forces. And as if that were not enough to get him disliked by his Jewish neighbors, Zaccheus was officially delegated by the Roman government to collect their taxes for them.

The Roman government was not very particular about how they got their tax money – as long as they got it. So, the local tax collectors could be as demanding or dishonest as they wanted to be, all for the purpose of getting money for the Romans. And, if these tax collectors squeezed a little extra money out of their fellow Jews, the Romans did not care. As long as enough money came into the Roman treasury. That was all the occupying force cared about.

I would imagine that Zaccheus was a pretty lonely man. Until – the Rabbi Jesus came to town. This was several years after Jesus had started to preach, teach and do miracles, so I suspect by this time Jesus had quite a following, and quite the reputation! Let’s pick up right in the middle of the narrative: “3Zaccheus wanted to see who Jesus was, but because he was short he could not see over the crowd. So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore-fig tree to see him, since Jesus was coming that way. When Jesus reached the spot, he looked up and said to him, “Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house today.” So he came down at once and welcomed him gladly.”

We read next that the crowd started to grumble, because the Rabbi Jesus saw and spoke with Zaccheus, truly engaged with him, and even said “I must stay at your house today.”  

Can you imagine, being the shortest guy in your high school! Plus, being one of the least popular persons in the town of Jericho! Both of those things must have been painful subjects for Zaccheus. I just imagine that he lived an isolated existence, wanting, hoping that someone would see him, notice him and validate him. This emotional response is only human!

We are currently observing a summer sermon series highlighting the person of Fred Rogers, of Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood. Have you ever thought of someone who is meek and gentle as being a strong individual? Someone who is so strong and confident themselves that they do not care what other people think? I think that is exactly the kind of person Fred Rogers was. Plus, Fred Rogers thought everyone was deserving of attention and respect, no matter what! And, that deep emotions were important things.

Of the many lessons Rogers gently gifted his audience, a chief one was that all emotions are valid, even the sad and angry ones. They need acceptance from friends and family and, often, expression – so long as it’s not violent. Sigmund Freud called this ‘sublimation,’ the channeling of destructive impulses into socially acceptable actions. It was a pillar of Rogers-ism, and [Rogers] often referred to dialogue about emotions and feelings as ‘important talk.’” [1]  

The Rabbi Jesus obviously thought that emotions were important – even the emotions of someone hated like Zaccheus. Sure, Zaccheus was seen as a hated tax collector by his Jewish neighbors! But, Zaccheus’s feelings were valid, too! Our Lord Jesus went out of His way to single Zaccheus out, see him, notice him, validate him. And, Jesus invited Himself over for dinner!

Salvation came to Zaccheus’s house that day. Jesus followed him home, and broke bread with him at a lonely table. Salvation comes to all of us when Jesus joins us, has fellowship with us. Even when people do not feel worthy, for whatever reason, to have Jesus join them – it doesn’t matter. Salvation is solidarity, hospitality, and yes, ministry.

Our commentator Karoline Lewis relates a modern (and true) narrative, taken from the column of David Brooks, long time New York Times columnist. Brooks tells the story of Kathy Fletcher and David Simpson. “They have a son named Santi, who went to Washington, D.C. public schools. Santi had a friend who sometimes went to school hungry. So, Santi invited him to occasionally eat and sleep at his house.”

“That friend had a friend and that friend had a friend, and now when you go to dinner at Kathy and David’s house on Thursday night there might be 15 to 20 teenagers crammed around the table, and later there will be groups of them crashing in the basement or in the few small bedrooms upstairs.”

The kids who show up at Kathy and David’s have endured the ordeals of modern poverty: homelessness, hunger, abuse, sexual assault. Almost all have seen death firsthand — to a sibling, friend or parent.”

“It’s anomalous for them to have a bed at home. One 21-year-old woman came to dinner last week and said this was the first time she’d been around a family table since she was 11… Poverty up close is so much more intricate and unpredictable than the picture of poverty you get from the grand national debates.”

“I started going to dinner there about two years ago,” writes Brooks, “hungry for something beyond food. Each meal we go around the table, and everybody has to say something nobody else knows about them. Each meal we demonstrate our commitment to care for one another. I took my daughter once and on the way out she said, ‘That’s the warmest place I can ever imagine.’”

The problems facing this country,” says Brooks, “are deeper than the labor participation rate and ISIS. It’s a crisis of solidarity, a crisis of segmentation, spiritual degradation, and [lack of] intimacy.”

“The kids call Kathy and David ‘Momma’ and ‘Dad,’ are unfailingly polite, clear the dishes, turn toward one another’s love like plants toward the sun and burst with big glowing personalities. The gift of Kathy and David is the gift of a complete intolerance of social distance,” insists Brooks. [2]

At church, we speak ‘salvation speech.’ This is speech that sees the other, that regards the overlooked. We speak speech that brings together, and unites across barriers and boundaries, classes and cultures. Speech that creates community and family for everyone. Speech that gives life and says that salvation is here and now, in this world as well as the next. [3]

Jesus said, “Today, salvation has come to this house.” It is salvation to a house, any house. It’s to a neighborhood, each and every neighborhood. This place where Zaccheus lives is where Fred Rogers would welcome, and be welcomed, too.

What would Jesus do? What would Fred Rogers do? Go. Do that.

(A big thank you to the online resources for Mr. Rogers Day – the Sunday nearest March 20th, Fred Rogers’ birthday. These resources come from the Presbyterian Church (USA). https://www.pcusastore.com/Content/Site119/Basics/13792MrRogersIG_00000154465.pdf )

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[1] https://www.cnn.com/2018/06/08/health/mister-rogers-go-ask-your-dad/index.html

[2] David Brooks, “The Power of a Dinner Table,” The New York Times, October, 18 2016, http://www.nytimes.com/2016/10/18/opinion/the-power-of-a-dinner-table.html

[3] https://www.workingpreacher.org/dear-working-preacher/salvation-today

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Have You Met a Pharisee?

“Have You Met a Pharisee?”

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Luke 18:13 – October 23, 2016

I’d like to start with a question: has anyone here ever met a Pharisee?

The Pharisees were professional “religious folks.” They were the moral bookkeepers of Jesus’ day, keeping track of right activity and wrong activity. The Pharisees kept an exact mental ledger, and were meticulous about having as little in the “wrong activity” column as possible. They were not only meticulous about their own activity, and went over their own business with a fine-tooth comb, but they gave recommendations to the rest of Israel on how to live, as well.

As this passage mentions in verse 9, righteousness was VERY important to the Pharisees; so much so that “certain ones” even went so far as to trust in themselves that they were righteous, and looked at others with contempt.

I ask again—has anyone here ever met a Pharisee?

Jesus mentions one Pharisee in particular in this parable. From my study and reflection on this text, I see this particular Pharisee being acutely concerned with external activity—wrong activity that was obvious to anyone. Let’s look at verse 11: ”God, I thank Thee that I am not like other people—swindlers, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector .” What can we see? EXTERNAL activity, where this Pharisee looks judgmentally with his lip curled at other people’s external actions. May I suggest that this Pharisee had his eyes focused on the external, visible part, on the wrong-activity part of people’s lives?

If we take a look at the Bible, at both the Old and New Testaments, we can see wrong-headed, external actions being committed time and time again. Over and over and over again. People at the time of the Bible just did not learn. I have a feeling that people today are in a similar situation, making mistakes and wrong decisions on a regular basis.

Certainly, our actions are important to God. Wrong-activity goes against everything we have ever been taught in Sunday school, from the pulpit, in seminary, about sanctified living, and how to present our bodies as a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God. But, a subtext I see here in this passage concerns INTERNAL attitudes and activities: the inside job.

When we talk about the inside job, the internal attitudes and activities, it does not matter whether we consider Bible times or today. People mess up. They have messed up for thousands of years. People not only do bad things, they say and think bad things. They miss the mark.

The Pharisee from this passage in Luke 18 looks at externals, and says to himself, “Gee, I’m not so bad. Matter of fact, I’m pretty good. Come to think of it, I’m doing all right!” See what his thought-process is here? He’s making himself out to be better, superior to other people. Verse 9: “Trusting in himself that he was righteous!”

This “super-righteous guy” was—in reality—anything but. So busy looking at other people’s outsides that he never did a reality check of his own life. Such a self-serving, prideful prayer! He was blind to his own shortcomings, and his own not-so-wonderful position before God. As long as he considered himself to be pretty good, more-righteous-than-thou, that was good enough for him. So much better than the sneer of contempt he expressed for all of the “sinful people.”

What about the contempt and scorn that Pharisees today express for others? Let’s take a similar situation: the one of a high-and-mighty bully on the playground. “You’re not as (good, fast, smart, pretty….)  as me!” Or, “You’re just a (jerk, baby, loser, …) And what about names that belittle – “shorty, four eyes, tubby, pipsqueak, etcetera.” [1]

You get the idea. Let your mind wander to add labels used in your workplace, school, community center, or neighborhood.

We all can feel what is hurtful about these names and labels, even if we cannot rationally identify it. And, these are not the only kinds of phrases Pharisees—those snide, blustering bullies—use. Just reminding us: we need to think ahead about how to handle similar belittling terms, and even worse terms with racial or sexual connotations.

I ask again, has anyone here ever met a Pharisee?

I am not sure whether you all know this, but at seminary, almost everyone who attends classes for a Master of Divinity degree takes at least one preaching class. We learn how to preach, how to bring a sermon to a congregation.

While I was in the Preaching class at seminary, I ran into one of my professors in the cafeteria. He and I periodically talked about my theological background and where I came from, theologically speaking. As we put our trays on the conveyor belt, I mentioned to him that I was working on a sermon for Preaching class. He asked me which text I was working on. I told him, “The Pharisee and the Tax Collector, from Luke 18.” His question—”which are you?” My response—”Oh, the tax collector, of course . . . I’m a reformed theologian.” The professor roared with laughter; he really appreciated that. (That’s theological humor for you.)

But it’s true. I do identify with the tax collector. The tax collector here KNEW he was a sinner. He didn’t have any illusions about himself! He knew what the Hebrew Bible had to say about external activity, and how to approach God. He KNEW that he missed the mark. He was conscious—oh, so conscious–of his sin. As Paul says in Romans 3:23, we ALL have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God. We have turned, EVERY ONE, to his, or her, own way.

But, the tax collector does not stop at just wallowing in sin. Neither should we!!! No–he falls at the feet of God and claims God’s mercy. As Jesus says in this parable, “I tell you, this man went to his house justified.” The Pharisee in this parable couldn’t even see where he had missed the mark. The tax collector recognized his sin, and he knew where to go. He knew he was powerless over sin. He knew his life was unmanageable. He knew where to flee for help and mercy!

Could the contrast between the two men possibly be more clear? Could the difference between the two prayers possibly be more extreme? What about you and me? Are there places where we have not done what God wants us to do? Are there impatient or unkind words that we have said? What about nasty, mean thoughts that have gone through our minds?

The Pharisee trusted in his own flawed and erroneous righteousness; we can certainly learn from his mistakes. The tax collector knew his own sinfulness very well! He threw himself on God’s mercy and forgiveness, wholeheartedly.

“Mercy there was great, and grace was free, Pardon there was multiplied to me. There my burdened soul found liberty—at Calvary!” We can thank God that God does not use a balance sheet for our accounts.

As I say each Sunday, we are forgiven! If we confess our sins, God is faithful and just, and will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from ALL unrighteousness. We can go to our houses justified, through the mercy and grace of our Lord Jesus Christ. What better news can we possibly receive than that? Alleluia, amen!

[1] http://worshipingwithchildren.blogspot.com/2013/09/year-c-proper-25-30th-sunday-of.html ; Worshiping with Children, Proper 25, Including children in the congregation’s worship, using the Revised Common Lectionary, Carolyn C. Brown, 2013.

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(Suggestion: visit me at my regular blog for 2016: matterofprayer: A Year of Everyday Prayers. #PursuePEACE – and my other blog,  A Year of Being Kind . Thanks!)